Everybody at some point should try anal sex if they haven't, it has so much to offer from new sensations to new positions, not to mention all the new toys out there for you to enjoy. I've met people, men and women, who are embarrassed to try anal play, there is a lot of social influence here. But you shouldn't feel ashamed or embarrassed at all, it's perfectly natural and something that is common all over the world. So remember, anal sex is not solely practiced by gay men and straight men shouldn't feel gay by trying it, trust me, it's a lot of fun.
So, if you've decided to give anal sex a try you mustn't just jump right in and try the big toys, and for the ladies, you shouldn't allow your well-endowed man to just go for it. Not preparing could definitely cause you a lot of discomfort and pain, preventing the desire for any further attempts. Here's a few things to remember:
The first thing you need to remember is lube, have plenty of lube on hand, you can even find special anal lube that dulls the nerves just a small amount, helping those first-timers.
Start small, use a finger (well lubed of course), or a small anal probe (since they tend to be thinner than the anal plugs).
Remember to communicate how it feels, and that is key, if you're uncomfortable at all with it and working with a partner, let them know, back off a bit and try again.
Don't force it. Try to relax, at first you may clench up, just relax those muscles.
Have your partner provide you, or provide yourself, some pleasure. Receiving vaginal or penile pleasure will help you relax and help you enjoy the new sensations by keeping you fully aroused.
As time passes and anal becomes more 'old hat' for you, go out and get some new anal sex toys. There are butt plugs, probes, beads and more to choose from, so give 'em a try

A Word on Anal Lubricants
When engaging in anal play water-based lube should always be used, never silicone, unlike the vagina, the anus has no easy way of expelling a silicone lubricant. After some time, the lubricant will begin to irritate the sensitive inner walls, whereas water-based lubricants break down easily and will not cause any problems.
You can also find lubricants that are slightly desensitizing, allowing items such as butt plugs to pass into the sensitive anus without causing discomfort or pain.
Butt Plugs
Butt plugs are the standard toy that comes to mind for many people when they think of anal sex toys.
The standard shape is that of a cone connected to a wide base by a narrow neck. This shape is to allow the anal toy to readily slide into the anus but not come out without a small effort, it won't simply fall out.
These toys are meant to be inserted and left in the anus during sexual activity. Many people enjoy the 'full' feeling they get while a butt plug is inside them, men also get the added benefit of prostate massaging when they move.
Butt plugs range greatly in size and quality of material. I always recommend against rubber if using the plug regularly. Try to stick with something non-porous such as silicone.
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Anal Probes
Anal probes differ from plugs in many ways, they aren't meant to stay inside, they are meant, instead, to be thrust in and out or to be used as a probe to 'poke around' a bit.
Anal probes are typically longer and thinner than plugs but you can find serious-sized probes for advanced users.
Probes usually need two people for proper use, some even come with a full handle for easy gripping and handling.
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Anal Beads
Anal beads are small to medium-sized beads attached by a cord or bendable plastic. By pushing them in and pulling them out you cause nice anal sensations.
To get their full effect you should pull them out right at the point of orgasm, many report that they have much more powerful orgasms with this technique.
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Enema Toys
Enema toys are used to either flush out, for cleaning purposes, your anus or used by some to add various liquids to their partner's anus.
They come in a variety of styles but typically they're some form of tube attached to a baggie that you can squeeze to push in the water.
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The main medical fetish toy used in anal play is the speculum. This toy can be used either anally or vaginally, it's inserted into the orifice by the partner then easily used to spread open the rectum or vagina.
It can be used simply to peer inside, used to train the anus for larger items or used to assist in inserting various objects.
Sounds

A second medical fetish item used in anal play is called a sound, it's a long, solid metal device that is partially inserted into the rectum. It can then be struck on the other end by another solid object, causing serious vibrations.
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Prostate Toys
For information on this toy please visit my prostate stimulator page.
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Large Anal Sex Toys
Large anal sex toys are pretty much the same as all the anal toys talked about above, just larger. These are for advanced anal adventurers only, some can even reach diamaters of 4" or more!
Many people don't enjoy the stretch that is achieved when using large toys anally but that's the exact reason why many love them. It can take weeks or even months to build up to be able to use some of the larger toys so be patient.
Large cone-shaped butt plugs can be used as trainers to stretch your anus, simply use them like you would use any other dildo or anal probe, pushing your anus to it's limit each stroke. Over a very enjoyable period of time you will start to be able to get it further and further inside, paving the way for bigger toys!
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Other Anal Toys
There are quite a few different anal sex toys that many people don't really know about.
Anal Funnels and Tube Plugs
You can probably guess what these are. The anal funnels are typically some form of dildo or other similar shape that's hollow. You can then attach a tube to it with a funnel on the opposite end. Once it's all in place you can pour any liquid you want in there, filling up the receivers anus!
The tube plugs work pretty much in the same way as the anal funnels except they are shaped like butt plugs, are usually made of metal and are meant to stay put, allowing access when needed for whatever reason you come up with.
Rectal Dilator Set
These are essentially anal training kits. They usually come with five different sizes of anal toys, taking you from beginner to advanced. They are a great buy for those new to anal sex but who enjoy it and want to get to the big toys.
Anal Hooks
Anal hooks are metalic hooks, with a rounded tip of course, that is inserted into the anus. Then you can tie a rope to the other end, keeping your sub where you want them. They come in a variety of sizes but are all made of metal.
Cock Lock Intruder
This is a special kind of metal cock ring, it has a bent bar attached that wraps up under the man and is inserted into his anus. As he moves around during intercourse, or whatever you happen to be doing, the ball at the end, that's in is anus, moves around, providing anal stimulation.
BYO Anal Beads
You can buy various sizes of metal anal beads that you can connect with a small rope, thus creating your very own string of anal beads!
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Where to Buy Anal Sex Toys
There are many places to buy anal sex toys, these are the best places to get what you need, in my opinion. I tend to rank the best store by its selection as price variances are usually quite small. The links to the stores are below the table.
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